• traches@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Raised conservative christian, took a disgustingly long time to lose some of my shittier takes

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      2 months ago

      I recently saw a shirt for sale online that says, “I’m sorry for everything I said when I was evangelical,” and that really just about sums it up.

    • Firebirdie713@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 months ago

      Fellow former conservative christian here, and I share that pain. I eventually came around thanks to a LOT of patience from friends who understood my background.

      I try to pay it forward by putting myself out there and extending a hand to anyone looking to understand and accept others. I have had decent success with anyone who asks in good faith.

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      2 months ago

      I didn’t figure my way out until I was in my 30s. Been out of it for over a decade.

      I was brainwashed, my head was full of carefully crafted indoctrination. My extended family will almost certainly never be free of it.

      We were subjected to an evil process from an early age. It’s not our fault. Losing the hate and guilt is also a process. Go easy on yourself. Takes a tough person to change their entire worldview. Only a few of us make it out.