• GrammarPolice@lemmy.world
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      28 days ago

      I was expecting some one or two sentences about breath control and kegels - which you did include. But i wasn’t expecting a whole fucking essay. I’m going to take all you’ve said and put the effort in. This genuinely seems like legit advice.

      • lightnsfw@reddthat.com
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        28 days ago

        I figured out how to orgasm without ejaculating or at least hold most of it back when I was in college. My girlfriend at the time and I would go 4-5 times a night sometimes. It was pretty great. Unfortunately she was crazy and no one I’ve been with since then has had the drive to repeat that. It makes me sad sometimes to think about how much I’ve missed out on because I couldn’t find a compatible partner.

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      27 days ago

      You mentioned some caveats while holding off, could you elaborate on that when you are free or provide a link to which I can read.