No, this is a reasonable reaction.
Any balanced person would feel this way.In Brasil, if you don’t call your waiter/waitress they are not coming to your table.
But not like that!
Do you snap your fingers tho?
Only when making a sassy comeback.
I don’t think so, but you may say “garçom” to get their attention.
Same in all of Europe
I think it’s just the USA that’s… different
Same over here, but if you snap your fingers at me they’re getting broken off till you learn to use them properly
imo that’s how it should be
You snap your fingers, I snap your neck
My step-dad would raise his hand and say “Teacher!” when they were in ear-shot.
Never got why my mom hated it. She’s more of an “Excuse Me!! Let me tell you my life story while you refill my water! No ice please!”-lady.