• ShaunaTheDead@fedia.io
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    Women are obsessed with true crime because we feel vulnerable, and so learning about it helps to hone our instincts to avoid dangerous situations. There’s almost always some warning sign that people ignored and they ended up getting murdered. There’s nothing wrong with true crime used as a cautionary tale. Are children sick because they read fairy tales about wolves eating grandmothers or witches cooking and eating children? Of course not. It’s the same thing.

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      You try to learn how to read people by watching true crime TV shows?

      That’s really counterproductive.

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        Well she’s right about one thing, and that’s that true crime is about as realistic and useful as fairy tales lol.

        Like come on, let’s be real: We watch true crime out of morbid curiosity and because the shows are entertaining. That’s fine! IDK why some people try to launder their interest in true crime as some sort of “research”.

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          Because no matter what you like and for whatever reason you will always get shit on both here on the internet and IRL. So we’ve all normalized having to defend our opinions.

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        No, you learn to recognize red flags from real life examples and make the right choices if you’re ever in that situation.

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          You’re learning red flags from a dramatization of an interpretation of a perhaps-real situation used to sell advertising. Do you think it really reflects things you should use to judge people and situations?

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            Not all true crime are dramatizations… there are a million YouTube shows out there that show you the exact footage, go over the exact details, etc…

            Shoutout to That Chapter!

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      Are children sick because they read fairy tales about wolves eating grandmothers or witches cooking and eating children? Of course not. It’s the same thing.

      Tbf, kids don’t normally seek out those stories. They were created by adults to scare children.

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      I think it helps separate you from the victims. If you feel that you wouldn’t have made the same mistakes as the people who went and got murdered, then it feels a lot less like something that might happen to you.

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      As long you don’t get hyper sensitive to the signs. You could end up overthinking any little sign when it could mean nothing.

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        For a lot of folks, being a bit more anxious all the time or missing out on a good thing is worth not being victimized. I don’t know if people are actually less likely to be victimized but I think plenty feel that it helps.

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      Lol. Hey, you know women aren’t allowed to have an opinion about why they like a TV show without being subjected to a bunch of patronizing comments. /s

      But I think that’s a a good take, I’ve always wondered why people like true crime so much.

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        Same. It makes sense in it providing a sense of control over the potential situation.

        How someone else can just come in and say your personal reaction to something is wrong seems pretty disrespectful.

        They can have a different takeaway, but that does not make your opinion invalid.

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      Something something women are taught to hold keys between each finger just to walk out to their own car at night.

      Meanwhile dudes: gonna walk to the store and get some ice cream at midnight yum yum.