@OriginalThinker@lemmy.ml, I’m responding to your DM here.
We don’t move posts to the correct community because Lemmy doesn’t have that option - and I’d rather you got to choose where your content lands.
As for why we don’t reach out and tell people - this is a volunteer job on a big community. We rely on the mod log and allow this kind of meta post to stay up for transparency and discussion. Otherwise, we focus on following the rules laid out so that this community can stay within its intended scope. This is a community for open questions and discussion - not support.
I’m sorry you don’t feel welcomed - that’s tough. However, communities come with their own rules and mods will make sure they’re enforced. I’d recommend checking those rules carefully before posting in the future as that will help the reception of your post.
Please see the sidebar, third link in the section about communities. Removing per rule #3.