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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • In addition to the great tips here, I say, turn off as many notifications as possible. The only thing I get immediately are calls, SMS, and Slack+work email during office hours. Like many others said, if it’s important, people will call me. Did I miss the message my brother sent the family group chat about his wife being pregnant? Yes, for two days, until he called me. I still found out months before the due date, and my family had a laugh about it. I feel like a fear of missing out is also a big part of these issues, and I think we should try to tell ourselves more that it’s okay, important even, to not keep up with everything all the time.





  • Not sure if I can give you specific advice, but I would say that your statement that her being naked around you is also a cultural “line” that’s not written in stone. Now I’m assuming that you’re from the US, I’m from a European country where many people don’t have that line. While I don’t have any step family of my own, I can say that I’ve seen and been around many of my in-laws naked without there being any issue. I also grew up in a family where we all saw each other naked all the time, and my wife have a stepfather who’s seen her naked since she and her mom moved in with him when she was about 14. That being said, even in my country I know friends from other families where that would be considered weird, so I’m not trying to say your thinking is inherently wrong. Maybe you should start by discussing this with your partner to get their view on it?