- becoming (financially) independant of abusive narc parent
- own job and benefits/pension
- own bills and own (no goddamn roomates) place to live
- own pets they have zero fucking say in whether i can keep for the rest of our lives regardless of if they wanna move one of their loser kids they pretend have allergies into muh space which they cant do lol
14·20 days ago- Moving out at 16 to escape my abusive home life (after the second time I was hospitalized for injuries from being beaten)
- Getting out of homelessness twice and putting together a career
- Finally finding the correct set of tools in combination with the right therapists to un-fuck my maladaptive behaviors—bad templates that resulted in me repeatedly choosing bad partners as well as sabotaging relationships with a handful of truly beautiful people