• XIIIesq@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Everyone judges, it’s how you act upon that judgement that is the mark of your character. Anyone that says “I don’t judge” is either full of shit or means that they are self aware of their biases, conscious and subconscious and don’t act upon their judgements.

    Judging people is a natural part of being human and impossible to not do.

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      1 year ago

      And to add to that, all the characteristics listed their green flags - characteristics used to judge people.

    • Rockslide0482@discuss.tchncs.de
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      I would just append that judging people is a good thing, often blanket misinterpreted as a bad thing. You should make an initial judgement upon meeting someone (it doesn’t really matter, your subconscious will anyway). The important part is being willing to update that judgement based on learning more.