• Flyingostrich@endlesstalk.org
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    Baby was immediately taken to a state if the art NICU and had a whole team of specialists. Still has a 0.5 chance of not having brain damage when she grows up.

    This is an absolutely amazing thing. But the tweet makes it seem. Like he just st with the baby and rubbed her chest. Not that she was being treated with the best equipment and by the best people.

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      And as you said: it’s pretty likely that children like this have developmental and/or behavioral issues.

      This life-at-any-cost approach might be understandable for the individual parent/relative, but it’s not exactly the best approach if you’re a bit more detached and less emotional.

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        Yikes. Why is this being up voted here?

        Translation: let babies who are likely to have developmental issues die.

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          Translation: you are exactly the myopic, emotion-driven kind of person I was talking about.

          You are potentially forcing a life of misery onto the child, its parents and society as a whole, just because you are too cowardly to say that yes, some lives are not worth living. This is a mercy that every street dog is subject to, but humans not.

          And don’t act all “hurr durr value of human life”, just look around the world. We all ignore millions of cruel deaths because it would be like real inconvenient to help them. You are dishonest and hypocritical.

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            A life of misery onto the child

            You know that just because the kid might have a chance to develop mental disabilities doesn’t mean the child is going to have a life of ‘‘misery’’ the child might be able to live a full life, the child might require a bit of support or might require alot of support depending on the severity of the child’s mental disabilities

            Plus who the fuck are you to decide whenever a life is worth living or not. This decision in this very specific situation should be upto both the parents and doctors

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            No, I just actually care about people with special needs and don’t want to murder them. I have a special needs kid and I know plenty of other kids with special needs who are very happy to be alive and happy that they have parents that love them and didn’t try to murder them when they were babies.

            What you suggest is eugenics and it’s rightly thought of on the same level as the Holocaust. It’s abhorrent.

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          “Quality of life” vs “quantity of life” is a question that can be discussed at both ends.

          Extending life at all costs is not always the best path.
          Society has grown more comfortable having this conversation with regards to the elderly and the terminally ill because it’s easy for them to weigh in on their own circumstances.
          It’s a harder conversation when it comes to accident victims or those profoundly stricken by a malady, because they often can’t weigh in.
          When it comes to neonatal or infants, it’s harder yet because they can’t weigh in and they’re so precious to us.

          No one is talking euthanasia without express consent, that’s monsterous.
          Asking if the effort is worth it is different though. As unfortunate as it is, some people never experience enough happiness in their lives to justify the pain we were able to save them for.

          It’s sad, but there are people who would rather have been allowed to die than to have to wait 18 years for assisted suicide.

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      Considering the baby is probably in her 20s by now, probably less equipment then, but you make a good point.

      It’s also a little like people giving God the credit when it’s Humans and Science and Medical Intervention that performed the miracle.

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        How much is a baby unlikely to survive? I looked up as you did thr conversion of grams to pounds and then looked up normal newborn weight… and it says less than 5 pounds is unhealthy, but not so fatal but won’t say how much is 50 50 of survival? And how much is a 99 percent chance? But I can wager a guess that less than a pound when 5 and a half pounds is dangerous must be… incredible.

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          My son was born at just over a pound and from the start they said his chances where very good and will just need time to grow in the NICU . From what I was told under a pound there is much more risk .

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      I had someone come into one of my classes who worked in an NICU come in to talk about it and showed us a picture of the usual state of the room for a baby like this.

      Imagine this but 10 times more machines and wires. The picture she showed was just a sea.