I think I got a crush on my dance instructor. Which fucking sucks for all the obvious reasons. Normally I wouldn’t be so worried. BUT I JUST HAD A GODDAMN ROMANTIC DREAM ABOUT HER. Seriously I just woke up from a dream about her confessing her love to me and me eagerly doing the same about her.

So how do you stop a crush from developing further? Because this is a well from which only disappointment may be drawn.

Edit: I am single btw.

  • throwawaysalami@lemmy.worldOP
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    10 months ago

    I see the crush as a separate entity from myself. The crush sees them as some unrealistic ideal superhuman, which falls apart when I take time to find out who the actual person is.

    That’s pretty damn well put.

    This assumes you have opportunities to casually chat without planning time specifically, or you can be in a regular part of group conversations.

    There is maybe a tiny window. But it’s worth a shot.