• CareHare@sh.itjust.works
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    7 months ago

    Sheesh Grampa, calm your tits. Not everyone has to relive WWII to feel validated. Participation? What are you trying to do, give him a new experience in life!? Isn’t the dread of existence already enough?

  • milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee
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    7 months ago

    And the irony is, it’s actually really important to be valued for your existence - just for being who you are regardless of your success or participation.

    Indeed, one might say baby photos are a kind of existence trophy, as are birthday cards.

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      7 months ago

      I suspect birthday celebrations are a thing because until relatively recently making it past childhood was genuinely an achievement.

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    7 months ago

    I do my best to keep up with things, but I’m nearing 50 and I’m sure I won’t be able to until I die if I live long enough. I sometimes wonder what kids will say about people my age not understanding and vice-versa when I’m that old.