• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    I’d say it’s okay to show someone your child’s genitalia when they’ve already seen it anyway.

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      5 months ago

      Yep, my wife has seen my little baby wiener. The awkward teenage pictures were far more embarrassing though. Hers are buried in a hoarder house so I might never get to see her embarrassing school band photos.

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        5 months ago

        I wouldn’t want to see naked photos of a significant other as a minor, but maybe that’s just me.

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          Normal people don’t view children as sexual beings, so their junk just isn’t any different than their foot. Parents especially. I see my daughter’s vagina several times a day, frequently covered in poop. It doesn’t register any differently than any other part of her that needs cleaning.

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            3 months ago

            You’re still weird if you make a point of showing photos of it to someone though.

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          5 months ago

          It’s everyone who isn’t a weirdo

          This thread is giving me the ick

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            5 months ago

            Yeah, definitely. At best they’re arguing tooth and nail for embarrassing their child in front of their partner, if not outright CP.

            Major ick.

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        5 months ago

        Right? All you’re doing is saying, “when I saw it last, it was a lot smaller than when you saw it.”

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      5 months ago

      Seeing someone naked as an adult isn’t the same thing as seeing them naked as a minor.

      You do see that, right?

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        5 months ago

        Dude, this has been a traditional way for parents to embarrass their adult children in front of their partner for decades. My wife has seen my naked baby pictures without my parents even showing them to her. And I’ve seen hers. What’s the big deal? It’s not like either of us found them sexy.

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      5 months ago

      NO IT IS NOT

      Always get the consent of the now adult that was in the picture as a child or don’t take the picture if they are still a child