• Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech
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    Open carriers show off two major things, and neither one of them are “tough guy”.

    First is fragile masculinity, they are worried that they aren’t seen as “manly” enough, so they have to show off to everyone that they are totally manly. It’s like women wearing that new handbag out and about, they want others to notice it.

    Second is pure fear, fear that at any time any moment something is going to happen, and the only way they feel safe is by carrying a lethal weapon with them at all times. You know, rather than dealing with what is causing the fear in the first place.

    So, we have a terrified person carrying a lethal weapon who is worried about what everyone around them think. To me, that’s the more worrying person in a room.

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      Fear indeed. I went to college in a very… provincial small city. Riding my bicycle around, I was regularly harassed by insecure assholes in pickup trucks, and run off the road twice. The one time I managed to get a license plate, the police claimed that without witnesses, they couldn’t do anything. ACAB.

      I added my 1911 to the strap of my messenger bag, at the top of my left shoulder, where the stainless frame would be plainly visible. I was suddenly given plenty of space on the road and even got occasional compliments when waiting at stoplights. It’s disgusting that I would be a target for bullying without my pistol, but suddenly I was an okay guy with my penis extension where douchebag drivers could see it.

      So yeah, I’m living proof that non-military open carry is only for scaredy cats.

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        I wonder if 3d printing a fake handle to stick out is worth the trouble.

        Being licensed anyway would be good if you were stopped, but it would weigh less and you wouldn’t risk losing it.

        Presume there’s laws about leaving it unsupervised etc while out the house.

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          Having a toy is just as good for that purpose.

          You won’t be treated as if it’s a toy though.

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      Loved the comparison to an expensive handbag. These people just want to look fierce and make other people feel in danger.

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        Just wait until you get all the hens clucking at their favorite restaurant about how stylish it looks with the wood-grain finish.

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      I have a friend who open carries everywhere as well. We do not live in a dangerous area at all and he carries this thing to the grocery store.

      I call it his “big boy gun” because it makes him feel like he’s a big boy now, like a kid who wears his “big boy” pants with no diapers.

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        I call it his “big boy gun”

        Good! And I hope you never let him hear the end of it. What a poser.

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        I had the talk with a friend once who did it, told him I didn’t feel comfortable. We went to a fast food place and told him to look around, people weren’t admiring him, they were afraid of him. Luckily he saw reason and stopped wearing it shortly after.

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      Stupidity goes in there too for baiting any and every psycho who can now instantly become an armed psycho.

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        Nah they say they are, but they’re scared boys walking around with it. The like to LARP thinking they’ll need to use it, but actually using it on someone is terrifying.

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    Remember folks, if your firearm is worth more than you are; showing it is like flashing your wallet.

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        Honestly? Nearly a decade of working contract security, including most of that time being level 3,

        I can easily say that I’d rather not be armed.

        First, carrying visible weapons makes people respond differently. They see you’re armed and everyone reacts to it. Its mere presence escalates situations.

        Secondly, your very question implies the trap always being armed leads to- you assume this man is aggressive or hostile. And most often that assumption is flat wrong.

        When all you have is a hammer every problem looks like a nail.

        Finally, situation awareness is infinitely more valuable than any weapon. You lose every fight you get into. Even if the other guy doesn’t harm you, if you draw down and shoot, you’re going to jail. You’re going to be held until they know what happened, and you’re probably getting charged.

        You lose on legal fees. You probably lose your job. And now you have to live with guilt- even if the subject had it coming.

        Also just a side note I was discussing open carry. Concealed is a different matter; concealed properly, no one will know until you draw. (And then things escalate fucking fast.)

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    “Thank god you’re here, man openly carrying! I feel so much safer around you!”

    “Heh. Yeah, I’m sure. People respect me when I’m carrying.”

    “Oh, no, I don’t mean it like that. I mean that if an actual gunman starts shooting, you’re a much higher priority target, giving me enough time to run away. Thank you for painting a target on yourself for us!”

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    Yeah you definitely get a daily carry that’s under 600 bucks. Even that’s a lot. You get your nice gun in that evidence locker and you aren’t ever getting it back.

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    We need more public pole arms and coinbags made of worn leather sashed onto one’s great belt.

    More ninja outfits. More people dressed up like Joker. I want peak Joker.

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      One of the things that really angers me about supposed second amendment supporters is their quiet acceptance of laws infringing on my right to bear any arm that is not a gun. In most states where it is legal to carry guns around, there are way more restrictions on carrying things like knives, swords, polearms, etc.

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        Reminds me of messer blades. Basically local governments said swords weren’t allowed so the people made extra long “knives” with a few sword features removed. Very similar to AR “pistols” today

        But yeah good ole fashioned medieval weapons would be awesome to try out and own

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      The most fantastic thing about the Joker is that Gotham police haven’t just drilled his ass with six dozen rounds to the funny bone during an arrest.

      Hell, this guy runs around with not one but two hyenas on the regular, and even they don’t get shot.

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    All I’m reading here is “How dare people do something I disagree with in public?”.

    To be fair, I’m no US American, so I wouldn’t know if open carrying itself is a problem, instead of just being a political statement.

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      It’s not really an actual problem more than it is a fashion statement, which is against the ideals of people trying to use it as a legitimate self defense tool if all else fails.

      Most people want to live a normal life. Go to places with family and friends etc. Having a gun is a personal choice, and those that choose to carry usually feel that if they have the capability to carry legally and safely to do so just in case no other help can get to you in time. Similar to wearing a seatbelt without expecting an accident to occur. And if it’s not for you it’s okay we understand.

      Open carry has a place. On police officers, in wilderness areas where predators are common, and on range days. But at a restaurant or store is NOT one of those places you should open carry even if you can legally.

      It brings all the attention to you and your gun and usually gives off a negative first impression. Any “bad guy” will simply target you first and by surprise. Or take your gun’s value as a sign of how much expendable income you have. And it brings about unwanted interactions as seen in the comic, but if you are open carrying maybe you are probably looking for that reaction and in that case it’s not purely self defense it’s attention seeking.

      I carry a concealed gun when I can, I respect responsible gun owners but open carry people are not responsible in my eyes. They make us all look bad imo.

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        You’re also leaving out that some people feel uncomfortable around firearms. Always forgetting about empathy. I could walk around with clothing that makes people feel uncomfortable, but I don’t because that would be inconsiderate of me.

        Also, just FYI, even CC doesn’t really help you. It puts you more at risk in most cases, and it’s often especially bad when dealing with cops. Of course that depends a lot on where you are and what you look like though. Some cops might show you respect for CCing, rather than the typical fear and panic. If you need to use it, a “good guy with a gun” looks exactly the same as the bad guy.

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          Yeah it goes without saying that a gun being displayed out in the open by an unknown person is going to make people uncomfortable, and nobody will want to talk to them.

          I’ve talked with my local cops when I was a firefighter. They are okay with concealed carry and understand it’s a increasingly common thing. They told me to be sure my weapon was holstered or dropped as soon as it isn’t needed anymore and wait for them to arrive.

          Long response times in my area is the biggest thing for me. That’s not just a factor for guns but also for the medical stuff and fire extinguisher I have in my car because fire/ems is the same way.

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            I appreciate this dialog, and I encourage all carriers to go and introduce yourself to the cops. Especially if you are not white or neuro-typical.

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          I’m not sure I follow, you are after all in your right to dress how you see fit even if someone else finds it uncomfortable. Pardon the obvious, but quite a few people are uncomfortable around queer people, and you know damn well the queer should never apologize for that!

          I believe open carrying is linked strongly to the identity of these people (but, you know, stupider), the same way people wear anarchist symbols or define themselves as Marxist/Leninists/whatever. They live the “don’t step on me” life. And as long as it stays as a political statement itself, it’s their right.

          Open carrying of course has a lot more problems with it than a pride flag on your shirt, but that doesn’t seem to be what the comic is about.

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            The uncomfortable people feel around firearms is much different than around queer people. Hand guns are designed to kill people. That’s the only reason these exist. It’s fear of life for some people, which is pretty reasonable. I’m sure that’s part of the point though. People are less likely to confront them when they do something bad because they fear retaliation.

            It’s also not a part of who they are. Queer people are queer. People who open carry aren’t different when they don’t open carry. It doesn’t change who they are internally if they don’t open carry.

            We take people’s comfort into account in society. I can’t walk around exposing myself, for example, because it makes people uncomfortable. You can walk around exposing your weapon though, which is likely just as bad or worse for some people.

            It goes further than that too. Personally, I wouldn’t wear a piece of clothing designed to offend someone. (Note: not the same as someone being offended by something else, like a pride flag, that isn’t designed to offend.) I’m pretty confident most people do this because it’s the right thing to do. Hopefully people who own firearms have empathy and consider how it makes others feel, and also don’t want to make people uncomfortable.

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              It’s also not a part of who they are. Queer people are queer. People who open carry aren’t different when they don’t open carry. It doesn’t change who they are internally if they don’t open carry.

              I hope you don’t need me to point out the uncomfortable parallelism here: You can be a lib. owning jackass at home, but don’t be it in public, please conform to societal norms.

              Again, it’s not open carrying to make anyone uncomfortable to them, it’s expressing who they are politically. Just that the way they chose to express it is inherently problematic, but nonetheless, personal expression trumps making others uncomfortable.

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      Have you ever heard of the expression “When you have a hammer, every problem looks like a nail”?

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        If that is what this comic is about, then why specifically single out open carrying?

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            I meant open-carrying compared to concealed carrying, both have similar impacts on gun violence I imagine, while the comic only ridicules open carrying.

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    I appreciate the art in this strip, it’s well drawn, the flow is nice, I like the heavy contrast which complements the tone of the message.

    It’s just, I prefer comics to be funny.

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    Bold move, given the propensity for guys like this to fly off the handle in a Gay Panic of Self Defense.

    I’ve found the 2nd Amendnent Remedy is mostly about remedying use of the 1st.

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    I carry a gun. Inside my waistband and under a shirt like a fucking adult. Open carrying out in the wilderness, for work or on a range is understandable.

    Randos carrying in public is pure cringe and is super counterproductive to the goal of practical responsible gun ownership as I see it.

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      of all the motives to be against open carry, putting cringe as one of them is … cringe.

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        Everyone else did a good job of listing the rest so I figured it was implied so here goes.

        Open carrying makes you a bigger target to hypothetical mass shooters because you are the biggest threat to them and will be targeted first before you can react.

        It makes you a bigger target to hypothetical robbers who use your weapon to size up how much money you have/make.

        It is clearly visible so the chance of social interaction goes up (see comic)

        It puts guns as front and center as your whole personality. Showing anything as your whole personality is not great, but something controversial and divisive is worse.

        And nearly all of this is avoidable by simply concealed carrying if you want to be armed.

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      “Randos carrying in public is pure cringe” they said, after saying they carry in public just in a concealed manner.

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        You know what I mean, open carrying.

        Concealed carry isn’t a fashion statement or anything political. It’s a personal choice not something to intimidate or rub in people’s faces.

        I have the legal ability to, I have the training to do it safely, so I do. That’s literally the extent of it.

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          You believing that your country is so unsafe that you need to have a weapon on you at all times, that’s political as fuck, even if you conceal it.

          Hell, the second you have to bend to pick up something you’re not fooling anyone anymore, we all know you’re carrying.

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            Umm yeah we live in a society so I guess every action is political from that perspective. I worked as a firefighter for several years. I know the response times for police and fire/ems and they aren’t that good.

            Appendix solves a lot of this. Printing can happen but a ton of it is easily avoided

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              Yeah, being a first responder really changed my perspective on a lot of “safe” areas" and how far help is.

              When you have one lone deputy in your entire county for a good portion of the night (and frequently only 2-3 cars during the day), and state is just on call, not patrolling… you can easily be 45 minutes out from LEO, that’s been a very long wait before…

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    I was getting into my car the other day and noticed someone getting out of their car and putting a pistol into their wasteband. Looked like they were going into a Buffalo wild wings or something. Like, are you gonna shoot someone in there or what?

    My thing is, you’re usually introducing a firearm into a situation where there likely wasn’t one previously, and are putting at risk the lives of everyone around you. I own a firearm and I hope every day I never ever have to use it outside of recreation. Most gun owners are exceptionally irresponsible and don’t give weapons their due respect, this is half the reason so many people get shot for no reason in the US.

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    I live in a country where carrying weapons isn’t a thing. But being that it’s lawfull in the country where this comic is supposedly happening can you imagine walking into a bar and some random chick starts screaming at you like that?

    Imagine if instead of a chick screaming about the guy it would be a guy screaming about a chick with purple hair?

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      Purple hair doesn’t kill at distance, not as much as people claim it does.

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      Imagine if instead of a chick screaming about the guy it would be a guy screaming about a chick with purple hair?

      I’m going to blow your mind here, but this was a comic strip and the character was drawn to be announcing things as a representation of what’s happening inside the mind of the subject walking. It’s an artistic/comedic effect and to take it literally or even remotely as a “both sides” issue is peak… something I can’t say without getting banned most likely.

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      imagine walking into a bar and some random chick starts screaming at you like that?

      Imagine not knowing how comic strips work.