Due to its asynchronous and discreet nature, people don’t have to be in physical proximity or expect immediate responses.

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    3 months ago

    My ex wife prefered snap chat.

    So you know, I just happened to get traumatized by another dudes dick in my wife’s phone after her nude photos I’ve never seen. I don’t know who he was other than her admitting it was a guy she cheated on me with 5 years ago.

    No I’m not over it. Its been over a year, and because of the toxic nature of our relationship I don’t have confidence to go out there and meet other people. It’s fine, I’m fine. I’ve got video games and a shower to cry in.

    But fuck smartphones. I hate this goddamn technology more than I hate my ex.

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      3 months ago

      It takes a long time for that hurt to go away. It eventually will, mostly.

      Take your time. It’ll be better.

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      3 months ago

      I’m sorry, man :/ I hope you feel better some day soon - it’ll all pass! I’m sure you’ve heard all the platitudes before tho. What games you playing ATM? 👀

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        3 months ago

        Elden Ring, Helldivers when I need to calm down from Elden Ring, and Factorio when I need to cool it from Helldivers.

        I sprinkle in a little Diablo IV and No Man’s Sky too