I mean, I would. Every year, all the time.

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    Why would they need to be male and/or middle aged? Couldn’t anyone who is a director and carving a turkey make this dumb joke?

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      I think dad-jokes are by their nature unfortunately limited to the group I have described. Every other kind of person makes them, they’re just common bad jokes.

      EDIT: …also I just went upstairs, threw some logs into the stove and stared at the flames for a good five minutes. What is it, that makes some people on feddit take something, strip away everything obviously core about it until some side aspect remains which they then get furiously angry about? Rest assured, I did not get up this morning and spent my morning cuppa devilishly plotting on how to enforce the patriarchy one more day. I do however love the awkward dynamics behind dad-jokes and imagining one requires the one setting I know them in which is one overconfident dad (who is accomplished at his job but refuses to accept, that doesn’t make him a master of everything), an arbitrary number of teenaged children and maybe a wife that loves the guy despite his attempts at humour. That’s where that thing thrives. If in your head it’s better to play the whole thing out with two deeply in love but very differently aged café owners who admire each other secretly across the street but dare not meet each other because, of course, dog person and cat person, you do that, however, I can’t quite get it to work for myself with that.

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        I think dad-jokes are by their nature unfortunately limited to the group I have described. Every other kind of person makes them, they’re just common bad jokes.

        I am going to have to disagree with you there. Dad jokes is an entire genre of jokes in and of itself. It transcends age and gender; it’s all about the attitude.

        Check out Mom’s Dad Jokes on Instagram to see what I mean.

        Also, my 10-year-old son loves telling dad jokes. He hates when I tell dad jokes, but he loves telling them.

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          He hates when I tell dad jokes, but he loves telling them.

          Such is the inherent duality of the dad-joke.

          Check out Mom’s Dad Jokes on Instagram to see what I mean.

          Seems to require an account, but anyway, I get the idea. Well, whatever works in your headspace is good, I guess, right?

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      Have you never watched TV and movies?! Only a man can carve a Thanksgiving turkey. Had they not specified middle aged men, I might have thought about a young woman cutting a turkey, and that would be such a ridiculous concept that I would have TOTALLY missed the directors cut punchline! No, no, the joke is FAR more effective when it reinforces a stereotype that pretty much only exists in fiction.

      EDIT: Guess the sarcasm wasn’t thick enough.